Last weekend, Rapik and I went to Kuching Central to check the place out. I must say, there are so many interesting shops there. We found this cute haberdashery shop where we spent almost an hour admiring all the diy stuff. Drat, we are getting old.
Anyway, it was there when we were stopped by this promoter from France-Taipei Bridal boutique. Since we had time to spare, I thought why not? And so, she showed us tons of pre-wedding shoot album.
After looking through all of the gorgeous albums, she started taking a piece of paper out and highlighted the awesome stuff under their RM2999 promotion. The package includes Actual Day Photography and Pre-Wedding Shoots added with so many F.O.C. extras.
Honestly, if it was not for me being broke, I think I would have paid the deposit on the spot. Fortunately, I came to my senses after walking away from the extremely good deal.
First of all, I cannot say for sure when will I get married. It is true their package has no expiry date but I just don’t like the idea of committing myself to something that is so uncertain and if it is certain, it would require the agreement of both parties. I don’t think planning the wedding based on my decisions alone is ideal, I want Aslan to be as involved as I am. I don’t think buying that package without his consent would be fair.
I am also scared of the never will get married curse because I bought their package. They told me that some couple bought the package since 2005 and till now, they are not married yet. SCARY! I don’t want to be that couple. Poor love-birds.
But then again, frankly, I have been feeding my brain with ideas for the uncertain wedding. I always go to wedding guide blogs/websites, browse for the perfect wedding dress, research on wedding venues, photographers, the theme, barang hantaran stuff, the honeymoon, suitable dates etc.
Heck, I even suggested ideas to Aslan regarding the ‘perfect romantic proposal’. After I finished blabbing, he said, “Your ideas are good but I already have the perfect plan in my head.”
I tried digging more of the so called perfect plan but he refused. Meh.
Without a doubt, I am nervous at the prospect of planning the wedding but I am sure it would be one of the most unforgettable experience, ever. I look forward to having the wedding bells blue.
And turning into a bridezilla.
Just kidding. Love,
E.




























